Confiding is negligence

Sometimes living for you sounds so selfish. Before I used to appreciate those who would confide themselves within their four walls. I would take them as idol for what I thought was “being alone makes aware of oneself” but now I realize that such people exist when they are loners for real. They don’t care for what they make impact around them or what people might think about them. Ask me how I have dealt with my loner days. I liked being all alone in my room not bothering about what is happening outside. My schedule would be from class to room and room to class. I also thought I was happy but you never know. Our loved ones get hurt to see us confiding but they seem to be helpless too. So what should we do now? Should we just ignore them because our ignorance will bring bliss to us? If we confide we are happy ourselves but if we open up we make a lot of people happier. I am not talking about GNH out here. This is a very broad topic to be discussed out here. I have realized a lot when I actually tried to confide myself, realization about how much we are being worried by our dears, realization that confiding is not a fair game to be played and realization that being a loner just eats up your brain. I don’t say don’t be alone all the time, we should give ourselves some quality time also but what I am trying to say out here is that we are not made of ourselves only. We are a group, a bunch, a society, a community and so on. So we should rather think about the dears before going into the dark room of confiding.